By Nick Arrizza M.D. ?
Do you know that neediness is one of the greatest impediments to healthy and successful relationships? Do you know that the majority of people feel emotionally needy and they acquired this through early life conditioning that remains stored inside of them much like an old outdated computer program referred to as ?emotional baggage?? Finally, do you know that is now possible to completely and permanently delete/erase this ?emotional software? thereby restoring you to a whole, complete, emotionally independent, secure, self confident, capable adult? Want to learn more about how this might happen for you?
So how does one become needy and how can they be restored to a state of wholeness and emotional self sufficiency?
Well, let me start by saying that when you arrived here you were already whole and complete!
I know that many of you will find that hard to believe because that experience may feel totally unfamiliar to you.
Many of you have been led to believe that the reason you are feeling needy is because your parents failed to meet your needs for love, care, attention, validation, acceptance, understanding and so on and that they are somehow to blame for your current feelings of ?deficiency?.
As a result many of you continue to buy into the belief that there is a special someone out there who might be able to give you what your parents failed to supply you. This has led many of you to engage in relationships that might be referred to as ?co-dependent? based on a hidden contract that goes something like:
?I?ll fulfill your unmet needs if you fulfill mine?.
When individuals feel they have found such a person and they agree to the contract they call this ?falling in love?. In fact all it is however is a contract of mutual exploitation and control. Does that sound like love to you?
Does it surprise you then that so many relationships built on such a premise fall apart so acrimoniously?
The wholeness that represented you at birth is often ignored and over ridden by the parent?s need to meet their own unfulfilled needs. You simply became the vehicle/servant who was conceived to meet those needs.
In other words your true essence and purpose for being here was overridden by the need to please parents simply in order that you could survive your vulnerable baby and childhood years.
Unfortunately by the time you became a young adult you lost almost complete awareness of your essence and purpose and were so invested in playing out the expected roles thrust upon you that this left a deep feeling of emptiness inside.
That ?emptiness? is a) responsible for all the feelings of neediness and b) is due to the ?absence? of ?You? in your mind/body and center of your life.
That emptiness can only be ?filled in? by your restored presence. So how does that happen?
Well simply by deleting/erasing from your subconscious mind any/all roles and externally imprinted expectations that have nothing to do with you. These roles/expectations are laid down in the form of limiting negative beliefs and memories from early child hood i.e. what we commonly experience and refer to as ?the emotional baggage?!
This erasure can now occur easily, effortlessly, permanently, and completely with a new coaching process developed a decade ago that is accessible to anyone who can read and write.
When one goes through this experience they find themselves returning to their Authentic Self which is an embodiment of feeling whole, emotionally self sufficient, complete, independent, secure, self confident, self assured, self respecting and mature to name a few.
In my view it is only from this place from within one?s self that truly healthy relationships can emerge.
If you would like to stop feeling emotionally needy then kindly go the web site below where you can request a free introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation that will begin to help you on your way to wholeness and successful relationships today.
Nick Arrizza M.D., a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is now an International Expert Life, Relationship & Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process?(MRP).
A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Consultation and a Free E-copy of my new book are available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)
Email: drnick@telecoaching4u.com
Web Site: http://telecoaching4u.com
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